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*ulesthefool
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months now and I know for a fact that we are perfect for each other. We understand eachother because of the tough ish that him and I have gone through before meeting each other. I have never ever felt this way about someone before. I claim that I was in love once before, but if this is love now, what was I thinking back then? We are both twenty and confessed that we are done looking for partners and he is still a virgin.I've only known him for a year, but I feel like I've known him all my life. ....Typical statement, but on the reals... He's the most chivalrous person I've met and I we're in love....but lately, we've been talking about moving in with each other and a future together. (as in marriage and beyond). Is that moving too quickly? Honestly, I've never been so happy with my life... and I've never been able to see my future with someone else in it until he came along. I don't want to imagine my life with anyone else....just.... Are we moving too swiftly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2011): If you are asking this question then possibly you do think it is too soon. Four months is a very short time, and the beginning of the relationship is when we see the person's good points and are not yet aware of their bad points. The success of the relationship depends on how you deal with any conflict between you, so why not give it a while and see how you feel when it has been a year?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I understand that you are both very much in love but yes you are thinking way to far ahead, four months is not long enough to start talking about marriage. If you both feel like you are ready to move in with each other then go for it and try it out for a year or two to see how compatible you both are living together, if the year or two runs smoothly then you can both discuss marriage, but dont rush in to it to soon until you both live together for a while and see how the relationship goes.
Goodluck.
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