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writes:Iv"e met this guy and he needs to move but he needs someone to help him pay the other half of the rent. we have seen each other 2 weeks but,I also have to give a 30 day notice so I actually would'nt be able to move in until jan 31 is this to soon? I really like him. but I'm shy and he doesn't talk much either. the physical part of the relationship is excellent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): I agree with the previous poster. You need to be careful here! You need way more time to get to know him and see how things go. What if he just wants you for sex and half the rent! These long silences are not a good sign either, and what happens if you move in together? Do you want to LIVE with someone who doesn't talk to you much?? This is a bad, bad idea, and you need to take a couple steps back and think things through.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (24 December 2009):
 Yes! Moving in with him by the end of January - and you've only known him two weeks is WAY too soon! As is the physical part, given the very brief time.......
As far as him needing someone to pay half of his rent, well, that's HIS responsibility, not yours. He should either get a roomate, or move somewhere he can afford.
The fact that he doesn't talk much and you don't either is troubling - and should be troubling to you. If I were you I would go very cautiously with this man. He may be just using you.
The whole thing does not sound good.
We'll see what other aunts and uncles have to say.
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