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writes: We're growing apart........pls help!!!!My bf and i have been together for about 4 months. but since summer started we've only been able to see each other once, and we've really only talked on the phone for a whole 2 or 3 times!! Sure, I talk to him almost every day but it's more of a 1 min phone convo. "sorry I can't do anything today, baseball" and thats all i hear!! He has soo much baseball he doesnt have any time for me!!We were really close but now that we don't see or talk to each other as much, i think were starting to grow apart and i really dont want to cause I love him soo much. But I'm gone next week, then I'm home for 2 weeks then im going to camp for a month!! The last time we saw each other, it felt soo distant, until like the last 45min of a 2 hour movie!!! i dont want to break up, but i also dont know what to do, im really frustrated!!pls help!! im losing sleep over this!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2006): youve got plenty of time left ahead of you. work it out, wait it out...
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (23 June 2006):
 Its hard to tell whats going on here but maybe you should try for the less means more approach. You say that you have some form of contact every day. Do you think its possible he feels crowded out and that hes not able to have his own space? If this is the case then he has obviously failed to communicate this to you and is simply asserting this by doing his own thing.
I think you do need to sort this out. Ask him how hes feelin and tellhim how you are. Make sure you try and schedule in some time together before you go away. Then hopefully when you get back things will be resolved. Hope that helps. Take care.
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