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writes:hi there i am 20 yrs old 21 in novemebr and i going out with a guy in who is 25 he is in the army he broke up with his pregant eex to be with me. we are together nearly a yr now and i just want to no will we last or are we going to fast. i have been on three hols with him (first one when i was going out with him for 3 months) i prat live with him i met all his family and we get on great and i diff be living with him in september but we didn't start been a couple till november of last year. my question is wil we spark out cos we are moving to quickly or will we make a go of it at the mo we both are in college the army is sending him thanks and no not my first love
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Honey who knows. We'd need a crystal ball to answer you.You have only been going out 8 months, and you are not living together yet that's where all the kinks come out. Maybe it will sizzle then fizzle, or maybe not. Too early to say, and too little information about your relationship,problems, personalities etc.
Tbh, if I were you the way you got together would not reassure me at all . He ditched his PREGNANT ex to be with you, which tells me he is probably an impulsive person who acts first and thinks later ( you don't make babies if you are not sure you are going to stick around for a loooooong time ). Also that must mean either that he was cheating on his gf with you before breaking up with her - or anyway that while he had a pregnant partner at home he was on the lookout for something new. Frankly if it were me that
would bother me. Then again, I don't mean to jinx your romance, people can change their ways when they feel true love ( not just lust ). Let's hope this is the case and in the meantime make sure you use contracception until your relationship is way more established.
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