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Help! I need help getting over this guy.

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Question - (10 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *mani2009 writes:

here goes, I met this one guy online and i know him for more than 7\8 months and we only met like twice and he was just lookin to mess around and I wanted that too but also a relationship... Anyways he told me hes not lookin to jump into a relationship and just wanted to be friends but when ever i spoke to him I felt it was me who wanted to be friends more, wanted to see him more, and I am not gonna lie I like him alot and I am obsessed with him , even though he doesn't feel the same about me :( now recently he tells me he wants to hang out with me, and today I asked him , and he starts to make excuses again , i dont know wats gonig on ... I don't know wat to do and I wish I can get over this , I really don't want to feel like this and its unhealthy. I feel he doesn't want me and yet I still want him... please help me .......

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2009):

hey babe, i know exactly how you feel. I am curently trying to get over a guy and its so hard. If he is not exactly what you are looking for and he makes you feel more unhappy than happy then it is best to just block yourself off from him completly. Trust me..i know doing this is so hard but after a while you will almost forget about him and your love for him will fade. Promise .x.x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2009):

Sounds like this guy is just looking to have some fun if you know what I mean, too bad he doesn't want what you want. You just have to stay strong and not give in

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