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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:-Never makes much effort to see me and only when he's away will he talk about us catching up next, but when he's home doesn't initiate anything. -Acts flirty over text, never answers phone calls, acts cold/distant in real life. -When we're 'flirting' over text, and we're both joking around, he will always say he will dominate me in something but in an almost cocky way, like he has to 'out do' me in everything. Barely asks about my day until I have to etc.-Takes hours to respond and if I take longer, he will take longer.-Only really texts me at night(does not work night shift or anything) -Never replies to photos I send to him on social media even though he has me on there. At least twice deleted me of an app and re added me randomly. -When I ask to follow him on particular social media sites like Instagram, he declines requests.-Finds out he has a girlfriend through photos, we spoke about it and he agreed to stay friends. When I asked him what happend to us as we seemed like we were seeing each other he said 'it was obvious it was not going to go anywhere' but still continued to act somewhat interested and flirty over text. After that, he talked about catching up when he's home and later I saw on somewhere that he was back home again, but didn't try seeing me even though we had sort of stopped talking. -When he's away(for work and other things) and what seems to be not with his girlfriend, he sends me slightly provocative photos to catch my attention-Knows a lot of athletes and other well known people, especially women. -Doesn't introduce me to his friends, but seems interested in my social and family life.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 March 2015):
 IT is the sign that he is
a player
a liar
a cheater
an immature fool
a time waster
why are you bothering?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2015): Besides the fact he has a GIRLFRIEND, how much does he NOT have to do for you before you give-up?
I guess he's not a player. He doesn't seem to want to cheat on his girlfriend; nor does he want to be friends with you!
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reader, CMMP +, writes (5 March 2015):
Seems obvious that it's because he has a gf
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female
reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (5 March 2015):
 Why are you bothering?
He has a girlfriend, doesn't want you to be part of his circle of friends, doesn't care when you send him photos, doesn't catch up when he is home and uses you as a fill in when he is bored.
I would say he is not interested, time to blank him and move on.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 March 2015):
 Why would he be interested if he HAS a GF?
Why would he introduce you to his family when he has a GF?
YOU are not really a friend. You are someone he he plays "games" with. And no, I don't think he is interested in you in "that" way. You play along his lame games, so he keeps you around for when he is bored.
I'm sorry you are 100% wasting your time.
Once you found out he had a GF you should have backed off and cut the contact - now you just come off as a someone who has a crush on him and is easily manipulated.
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