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writes:I'm not sure if my married friend, who I have had a relationship with in the past, wants to remain my friend, or pick up where we left off. I'm terrible at picking up signals, and when we hang out, we usually just talk, and she always stretches out on my couch and puts her legs across my lap. We do talk alot on the phone/email/text message, and I doubt that her husband is aware of any of it.I'm not sure what to do, or if that is her way of being friendly. Either which way I want her in my life one way or the other, and unfortunately I'm afraid that I may be jumping to conclusions. Can anyone help, or has anyone been in a similar situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): She is into you and trying to pursue you. I know because I have done this. Sometimes we get married to young and don't quite get the wildness out. She WONT leave her husband, I can promise you that. Move on, we are so bitches when we do this. Find someone who is willing to fully and totally commit to you, please do. you seem like a really good guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): The woman is married, what do you think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): You're forgetting an important tid bit- she's married. Why not focus your romantic pursuits on someone who is emotionally available to participate in a relationship? Honestly speaking, she's being very selfish... She gets to flirt and monopolize your attention AND go home and share a life with her hubby. You deserve someone who is entirely committed to you. My advice is to remain friends but look for love elsewhere.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2009): What other ways is she showing interest? Is she telling you she wants you in her life ? Those are clear signals. Need more into to help you. Trust me i have been her and done that.
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