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writes:hi im not sure how to say this but im a normal person, i have no trouble making friends it's just i really don't like to have sex and it's not like im gay or anything, i know that im not attracted to men. it's just i can't seem to find girls who are genuine or at least be able to decipher the girls who are and thats a really big turn off. todays people are so based on whats the new style of fashion and what type of cars they have. is there still people out there who are logical and don't proscribe to whats on the idiot box Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 yes there are genuine people out there. Reassess where you are looking for a partner. Bars and clubs will not get you the discerning thoughtful intelligent gal you are seeking.
Keep yourself smelling good, looking trim, nice clean clothes every time you step out the door. If you live by the maxim that: 'today's the day I could meet my partner in life', then you will put thar little extra effort into your preparation daily, before you step out of your door each day.
Try some different options to meet an interesting gal:
#do a spot of travel to far flung places and meet the locals in each place. Across the globe you will meet interesting gals travelling, like you, looking for interesting experiences.
#take up cycling and join a cycling team. The gals are fit, healthy, and after the cycle the group invariably go out for coffee (just avoid the occasional gal obsessed with her bicycle)
#find a course teaching home maintenance (even if you are ok on this) as these courses are full of more women than men.
#join a mixed gym and do the mixed circuit class. find time to talk to the girls there and over time you'll get to know them, build rapport, and finally ask out the one you like the best.
#join a cooking class (with plenty of girls enrolled in the class of your choice there) and learn to perfect your osso bucco as well as meet gals. Offer to take them out to a good restaurant for a 'tasting' of the cuisine there.
#join a yoga class which is healthy and relaxing at the same time - where the gals well and truly exceed the guys - if you like a gal there ask her out for coffee afterwards
#join a volunteer group that gets out into the world to do good things for others - join a mixed (guys and gals) rotary group.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 hi
your different from the crowd. you seems to have embraced this fact and are happy with saying it so good for you :) BUT
maybe you are therefore giving yourself a smaller pool of potential partners if you know what i mean? just as you want people to accept YOU for the way you are, i think you could do with being a bit more tolerant of people that you see as different to you.
for instance, being interested in fashion and nice cars doesn't make us bad, unworthy people, if someone is into stuff like that it is only one facet of their personality.
not liking sex is something that will further decrease the number(SIGNIFICANTLY) of women who will date you i'm afraid.
as even if the woman is not overly interested in sex (some aren't) they will still want some sort of intimacy with you.
its up to you. from your post you seem to be saying that you would rather opt out than confirm to what the majority of people are doing. i hope you can find what you are looking for
xx
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