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writes:I've been on a few dates with this guy, who I am pretty interested in, and as we've went along, we've started to get a little hotter and heavier with every interaction. Well, I've wanted to maybe progress the makeout sessions to a handjob, but I found out that he is uncircumcised, and this is making me super nervous! I've never once been with an uncut guy. It doesn't disgust me or anything, like some woman say, but I'm afraid of doing something wrong or hurting him. I've heard and read both "There's no difference between cut and uncut guys!" and "Oh My Dear God, Please Don't Touch An Uncut Penis Like You Would A Cut One! Ugghhhh!" Needless to say, I'm a little confused as to how to touch him or even how to talk about it. I don't want him to feel like a freak or something, but I also don't want to sound like an inexperienced 15 year old. I've been with three other guys, and I'm 23. Until this, I thought I had penises and hand jobs pretty much figured out... Nevertheless, I figured REAL people would have better advice than Cosmo Magazine. Any suggestions or information is super appreciated
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 September 2014):
 REad the book "tickle his Pickle"
It has a LOT of good advice for women who aren't sure how to do it "right". Very useful tool to have.
http://www.drsadie.com/books/tickle-his-pickle
Also ASK him how he likes it. Make him show you or guide you.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (30 September 2014):
 Been with one cut guy. Found hand jobs with him to be difficult. Dont know how you do it, really? Lots of lubricate, or what? With a natural guy you just move the foreskin up and down, and you have way more flexibility and can be spontaneous. More nerve endings to play with as well. For example you can play with his penis when the foreskin covers it completely (if its long enough), and then when you pull the foreskin diwn, treat the head like you would with a cut guy.. Make sure it is moist. Oh, and natural guys are typically more sensitive than cut guys, and so might achieve orgasm quicker.
Anyways, just experiment and enjoy ;) Natural men are the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2014): oh man you're so lucky he's intact! i'm a bit jealous haha.
anyway, go slowly, don't be too rough. don't pull too hard, as that can be painful. remember that his glans will be more sensitive to direct touch :)
most importantly, ASK him what he likes!
e.g., "how does this feel?" "do you want me to go faster?" "how do you want me to touch you/play with you?"
Or, you can always have him show you ;)
have fun!!
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