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iLuvMusic14
writes:Something you hear alot now days from teeagers.( Mostly girls). That they think their teacher is flirting with them or is being a pervert. I am a teenager myself. I know by first hand what their going threw. They need to know the difference of being friendly and flirty. I know most of my male teachers are just being friendly when they joke with me. But a couple of teacher stare and flirt every time they see me. So when i read a story from someone else i can understand what their going threw. They need to be able to read the signs. Like my first hint from my teacher was when he started touching me everyday. I reilised thats not normal. He only did it to me.So heres some ways you can tell if your teachers just being nice or something else.Being Nice,he says hi to you or how have you been. He tells you look nice( that 1 just dependes on how he says it). Theres many ways if he treats every one in a nice way its probaly just normal.Bad,Every time he sees you he stares non stop.- If he does it once or twice its fine though-Every day he touches your back or shoulder or other places.Every day he tells you that your pretty or hot.If he does stuff ONLY to you and no one else thats not normal.Ways to tell,You should watch him if you think somethings wrong. If he treats every one like that i think that means he's just a nice person.Most times when you think he likes you its not true. But you should ask someone what they think to. If you have any other question please message me.Love Mary,
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reader, ugh101 +, writes (6 July 2009):
 The problem at our school would be the teens who have the crush on the teacher and he is totally clueless. and they are open bout it.
LOL
Nice aritcle
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reader, iLuvMusic14 +, writes (11 June 2009):
iLuvMusic14 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I wrote this because i've seen how teenage girls have problems understanding the ways their teachers act around them. So i just wanted to help. Thanks for the nice comments. I think you would be a great frined to.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (11 June 2009):
 You are very perceptive and clearly a very mature person. You would be a good person to have as a friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I think a lot of teachers but off a fun and caring vibe in order to be more approachable to their students.
A lot of girls love their females teachers and feel they can talk to them about anythign becuase of this, but when it comes to male teachers, they get the wrong idea. I suppose becuase they'd just like to THINK that their cute male teachers are flirting with them.
In reality, if your teacher wasn't like this, how much would you enjoy going to his class? Not much. Kids pay attention and repsect teachers who can be had fun with, made fun of (jokingly). while also being caring about the individuals in their classes.
Nice article and ability to defferentiate between flirty and fun.
~SY.
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reader, alwaysnluv +, writes (10 June 2009):
I think you have a very good idea about teacher-student realations..however... i have seen teacher be the exact opposite, for example..This teacher would act outgoing, and really friendly to all his other students, but when i would be around him, he would try to act mature, and like the "alpha male" type. He would straighten his body, fix his tie, rub his chin, and try to appear very mature, and confident... he would say hi to me everyonce and a while, but he always seemed shy around me, but i see him around other stuents, and he never acted shy around them, he seemed relaxed. But when i would ask him a question, he seemed to tense up and act very nervous. I think every situation u hear about with teachers being attracted to students are different. Teachers are only human too, and it's only normal to be attracted to someone, even if they are your student.
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