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writes: I have a male friend who is in his 60's and is 20 years older than me. The thing is, he thinks he's Mr. Don Juan and thinks he can still hang out with the young bucks, going to the dance clubs, strip clubs, bars--whatever have you. He doesn't have friends who are his age and never dated anyone his age because he is not attracted to "older" women because he likes those young girls he sees at the beach and at the clubs. It's not like he's got a bunch of money, or a house or anything. He's broke and really has nothing to offer. Should I stick around? And plus, even though I'm younger than he and quite attractive, he treats me like chopped liver. He's overly protective of his privacy and space and is very evasive. I would think a man his age would have outgrown all that by now. I think he prefers to be alone than be with someone real just as long as there will always be a strip club to go to. How can I make him see that he's really missing out in making the rest of his life more meaningful? My question is what does he get out of all this and are people really content living this way?
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reader, pica +, writes (11 August 2006):
He seems to be fine with it, sorry but the problem is yours. Can't say he sounds like my kind of person either though! Sorry but I really don't understand what you want him anyway - he has "nothing to offer"??! He's mean to you, has a lifestyle you don't like? Likely he's been this way for a long time and he's not changing for you. Leave him be and meet someone more suitable.
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