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writes:i dont really know how to phrase my question, but is it true that we (as individuals) see personal features more extreme than others? for example, if i had a coldsore, i would notice it much more than others? would it appear more severe/bigger to me than to others?? im asking this because i have abit of cellulite on my thighs, i notice it, but when i ask others they say they barely notice it and that i shouldnt worry about it.thanks aunts x Reply to this Question
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reader, PJ090729  +, writes (11 February 2012):
Depends on the situation.
Most likely people didn't notice something until their attention was brought to it, and then, depending on how obvious it is, maybe they can't stop noticing only after you've brought their attention to it.
That can lead to awkward answers if you ask again.
That said we do tend to magnify our own insecurities.
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 It's in human nature to over-exaggerate our fears.
That's why jumping into a cold pool or going to the doctor's to get a shot is so scary. It's all psychological. Usually if it seems like a big deal, it probably isn't as big as you think.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 February 2012):
 I think we are always our own worst critics....
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