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*urkish delight2047
writes:hey.... i just have big sex fantasies... i dont know how im gonna take it out from my mind but start hurting me ... i have beautiful wife and baby... i wanna watch my wife sex with another guy... i know its wrong but making me so exciting.. we watch always porn movies and dirty talk you know what i mean... and this fantasy always in my mind.. i spoke with my wife that also just she making me happy sex time talking dirty talk... after sex she dosent wanna hear... pls help me guys is it normal or not... just i dont wanna lost my family thank you so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Hi You hope you both won't get hurt....it involves emotions that you just may not be ready to deal with , an avenue that can lead to win or lose. You have to be prepared to play the game, and possibly lose. However could be fine and dandy and both of you have great fun, no damage done. I would say think very very carefully and your wife must not just do this to please you, it has to be joint. Fantasy does not always work well in the real world and can screw lives up and you remember a third person is involved and problems can come from here, even if you two have fun. Good luck spunky monkey
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Good luck! Just talk to her and see how it can work. Only you two know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Good luck! Just talk to her and see how it can work. Only you two know!
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reader, turkish delight2047 +, writes (2 November 2010):
turkish delight2047 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes she told me same thing also to me too she wanna do for me...i want this so much i hope we nt gonna get hurt tnx again
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): My bf is the same way. He wants to watch me with another guy. I'm not married tho of course so its a lil different. He approached me one night during sex when we were doing our little dirty talk. Of course in the heat of things I told him I would do it for him. I'm not 100 percent sure but who knows.
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reader, turkish delight2047 +, writes (2 November 2010):
turkish delight2047 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks angel is nice idea...just i worry about my fantasies coming true.. coz im pushing her so much for that... anyway thanks answering my question :)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Try a mirror and a wig or mask on yourself, if your wife will consent. I think fantasies like this are common but trying to force her to do this will wreck her trust of you, assuming she still does trust you.
If you are having consuming thoughts of this, lay off the porn for a couple of months and seek counseling if you cannot separate fantasy from reality.
Remember your wife is a human being with feelings and not an extension of your sexual self. Porn might be giving you some distorted notions of what sex is like for women, that's why I suggest you give it a rest for a while.
Take care.
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