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writes: is this a sign of cheating?i know its almost christmas.but there for awhile our relationship got weird.we wasnt seeing eachother and we was fighting.we wasnt seeing each other cause my bf has work.and i am pregnant and we was fighting about everything!we stopped saying i love you.then it got to much and he said he thought we should take a break.well while on that "break" i had to go to the ER cause i was hurting.and my bf came there right away as soon as he got off work he didnt change clothes or nothing.then we decided to get back together.and he stayed the night and it was great!he told me he loved me and everything was good.but then when we woke up he said i love you again.and i said it back and he said :no you cant say it back" weird?then lastnight.he brung me a cute stuffed dog and a big hershey kiss.and then said that i still had my christmas present.then i told him that im moving and he got the idea of us living together and at first he thought we could do it. but then he told me tonight that he didnt think he would make enough money for us and plus when the baby gets here.and then when i told him that my mom stepdad and grandparents was going to live in one big house.i asked him if he would still come and see me.and he said yea but not as mcuh and he wounlnt spend the night again. cause he isnt comfortable being around my mamaw casue she is too pushy!is he cheating? and is the gifts guilt gifts?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (20 December 2010):
Where do you get that he's cheating? I think he's a kid in over his head just like you are. You're underage and pregnant. His gifts were to make you hopefully feel better. Just because your family scares him doesn't mean he's cheating, it means your family scares him.
Why do you instantly think the worst?
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