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*kelligon
writes:Here's the scenario. I'm 15, I'm at a party, I see a girl that is like an angel. How would I approach her? What would I say? Because I don't want to sound/look like an idiot. Please, pleeeeease help me on this. Reply to this Question
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (2 March 2008):
 -Gage her mood before approaching. If she seems pissed, then don't do it. You will get turned down flat.
-Does she look like a snotty bitch? Most of the pretty ones are.
-Don't approach an older chick if you look your age. Sorry, lots of women prefer older men.
-Good hygiene. Its not attractive to look like you just rolled out of bed.
-Don't act like a dork but don't be an ass. Have manners but don't be like the guy who has a ruler up his ass.
-Have something interesting to talk about. Over and over again, guys ask her the same thing and talk about the same things. Talk about something that will make a good impression and will make her laugh.
-Relax.
-Don't try too hard.
*HAVE FUN!*
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 March 2008):
 Hey sweetness,
You got some great advice. Just adding in some additional tips:
1) Please make sure you smell good. So many parties have I attended, so many smelly guys trying to hit on me... no good. Smell good.
2) Be a gentleman. Too many scum bags are lurking around at parties trying to get lucky with chicks. Don't make your objective to have sex (that is, if you want a relationship with your "angel"). Instead, just try to be as friendly, sweet and polite as you can.
3) Be yourself! Now, I know you're going to sigh and say "yeah, yeah, that's what everybody says". But this is WHY you should be yourself: after the party, you don't want to have to pretend to be someone you're not. If you go up to this girl trying to act like a tough guy, she's going to expect you to be a tough guy tomorrow... and the day after that... and day after that... you want a girl who likes you for who YOU are, not a girl who likes some character who you made up.
As for how to approach her? Grab her a drink and say, "hey, you looked thirsty so..."
What to talk about? You sound smart, improvise! Go in with a few conversation topics prepared, but here are some good kick off points:
"Hey, don't we have class together?... I'll bet I get a C in that class, the teacher is such a..."
"You having a good time?... My friends just ditched me, they're off doing something stupid..."
"Hey, how are you?... I'm okay. Parties are always awkward, I never know who to talk to. Do you know a lot of people here?"
I don't know, just throwing some conversation starters out there. I haven't been to a HS party in awhile. Hope you have a great time. Just keep enjoying yourself at the party!
xx India
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reader, hello1 +, writes (1 March 2008):
 Go up to her and say
"are you a angel? cause I think you just fallen from the sky"
It's a good opening.
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reader, Dezzie813 +, writes (1 March 2008):
hello skelligon. i am a girl so i figured it may help if u had some advice from some1 that could tell u the other side. first of all before u even approach the girl make sure that u want 2 be in her life 4 a good reason nd not jus cuz u want 2 get in her pants becuz any girl that is special would not like that AT ALL... ok? another thing is like the person above me said jus be urself cuz that is a very important thing 2 a girl. if it seems very hard 2 go up 2 her jus try 2 think of the other side nd how she may feel when u do... u dont want 2 put 2 much presure on her. nd also jus remember that watever happens ur urself nd u dont alwayz need another person there... that helps me a lot when i get rejected. well hope that helps good luck. love from a girl with the heart of an angel, Dezzie813
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reader, Transcowboy +, writes (1 March 2008):
 Well if your at a party, and the music is good, just go up to her and ask her to dance. If its not that kind of party, just go up to her and be yourself, dont try to impress her by being someone your not.
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