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*lexS
writes:Hello, i've been with my Boyfriend now for 9 months and i love him to dealth. About a week ago we had an argument but sorted it all out, problem is since we had the argument a week ago he's started texting me a little less but texting an old friend from where he used to live, he's the type of guy who finds it hard to show romance so he dont text "X"'s to anyone but me, strange thing is i found texts to this old friend who "X"'s and apparently her Boyfriend has the same name as mine does... she sent him a long text but he wouldn't show me and he smiled at it, when i asked he said "she accidently texted me what she was supposed to text her boyfriend" ... i'm thinking why would that be an accident even if they have same name? :/ ... i asked him he was getting bored or if he didnt love me no more and he replied "your so paranoid, of course im not i love you a lot" ... im scared somethings going on but at the same time i know im probably just over reacting, they could just be friends ? please help me, i love him please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Go with your gut instinct....wish I had of when it happened to me. I thought it was all me and it was all in my head then found out that he was having an affair with my so called best friend!! He should of ahowed you the text message, you know when something isn't right. I wish I could be more positive for you and tell you it's in your head but I truly don't think you are!! Good luck
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reader, AlexS +, writes (18 July 2011):
AlexS is verified as being by the original poster of the question angelDlite, thankyou for the helpful advice, he did start the argument but said they were just mates and that i worry to much ... he said i purposely tried to accuse him? he got a little defensive, i just think its weird how like you said if it was harmless why didnt he show me? i saw that it was a long message and he giggled to himself like as if he loved what she said :/? he always says he loves me though, tells me to smile and not worry, maybe i am over reacting but why is he so secretive about what she texts him?. marieclaire thankyou, i have actually looked through his phone , thats how i knew he left kisses, it was just general convosation but he seemed happier talking to her ( he put smiley faces) there were more texts sent to her then he had actually sent to me on one of the days... maybe i look into it too much. I've been cheated on in the past, he said he would never do that and i trust him in that sense... i still worry (im a worrier lol) xxx
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (18 July 2011):
 he should have let you see the message if it was an innocent mistake, if you are being 'paranoid' it is because of his behaviour. my instinct from the things you have said is that if there is nothing going on between them, there is at least the wish by one or both of them. maybe he is just loving the attention from her. why did you argue? did he start the argument by any chance? if he loves you he would not want you to be jealous
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