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writes: My boyfriend and I don't have sex that much, I think it is because we don't have good sex. Is there any way to start having an amazing sex life, even though we never have.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 Smeedle. we will use your advice this weekend!!
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reader, em123 +, writes (3 March 2006):
get yourself to the down to a sex shop like ann summers,they have plenty of things to add a bit spice to your sexlife ...vibrators,lotions,potions,underwear etc.if your embareesed to go in and buy things you can buy online
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): Wow take heed of smeedles advice, I am a 42 year old male and thought sex was ok until I realised that actually it was a little jaded, smeedle has shown me the error of my ways and hopefully my lady will be pleased with the way out love making will go this weekend, especially as the kids are at a friends for the weekend.Thanks smeedle, I will let you know how I get on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2006): Smeedle has given excellent advice and I will be following her saucy suggestions at the weekend as I too have been having bedroom boredom, my partner thinks he should have sex because he wants it, then 3 mins later it is all over and I am back listening to him snooring.I will certainly do as smeedle suggests and think that you and any other person with bedroom boredom should do the same.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (3 March 2006):
 learn some techniques, learn to love each others bodies, talk about what turns you on and what fantasies you have, get some saucy underwear and some for him.
Get some sexy films out and try out new possitions, book into a hotel as mr and mrs smith and stay in bed the whole weekend.
Fill the bath with warm water and loads of oil, then give each other a full massage but no sex, then bathe together sponging each other and touching each other in intimate ways but still no sex, bring each other to the point of orgasm with your hands and mouth but still no sex, then dry each other off with warm towls ensuring you dry all the nooks and crannies and still no sex, then go into the kitchen and feed each other things that make a mess like jelly and drink port or wine and spill it down your self and get him to lick it off and then when you are sitting on the work top start the sex, do it with him standing and you sitting, then do it over the freezer or washing machine with your back to him, do it anywhere but were you usually do it.
Go for a drink to the local pub and wear no underwear, let him know that you have nothing unerneath and enjoy his frustration all night.
Do you get my drift, make love making different!!
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reader, juliagulia +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Sure! You need to find some things that you both enjoy. For example, give each other full body massages and try different types of touch to see what you respond to and what your partner responds to best. Maybe some soft touches and then some rough passionate touches. Try kissing for a long time and see if that sparks some chemistry. If you need help, try reading some books like Joy of Sex and stuff like that. Some of those books are helpful. You could even try renting some *ahem* "instructional" videos and see if that interests you. Shows like Real Sex on HBO often address some kinky stuff and it might spark a sexy conversation and a "what do you say we try that out?" Just try to get creative with each other! There are so many things you can do, you just need to get started. Talk dirty to each other and try to figure out what turns you on, as well as your partner and see what you can each do to make it happen. Get some toys from the local adult store and experiment with those. Smear some whip cream on that bod and make him get to work. I think in this situation, any effort would be an improvement!
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