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writes:My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there are large gaps in between physical intimacy. I also know he views porn videos. Even though it is not on a regular basis - I still feel uneasy. Thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): your boyfriend could be on a slippery slope called porn and masturbation addiction, it is a serious chemical addiction. visit no-porn.com and determine for yourself if he fits the criteria.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): Most men and a lot of women view porn.You need to stop being insecure.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Hi,
It sounds like you may have hit a rut in the physical side of things. Are you both conservative in your love making? If so things can get a bit repetitive and while he still loves you, it doesnt take away from sex becoming routine.
I think it could be as simple as spicing things up a bit. How about sharing fantasies, or dressing up. Take him into town and go to a sex shop , have some fun!!!
You might just find he spends a lot less time looking at those porn sites and concentrating on looking at his sexy partner.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Porn isnt good.You need totell him
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 Have you tried talking to your man about this? Have you told him that you enjoy sex, and would like some more of it? Maybe he has a problem? You need to make him feel comfortable enough to tell you about this, and you can stand by him. Maybe he is just going through a phase. It could be a great number of things, of which one is really unpleasant. Maybe he is not attracted to you.
Either way - there is only one way to find out, and that is by communication.
If you are afraid of discussing this with him, maybe try and initiate your physical intimacy more often.
Wait for him naked on the bed when he comes home from work.
Run him a bath or offer to massage his neck and back.
If he is still resistant, then you know something is wrong, and it needs to be addressed. All people differ in how often they like making love. You need to find a middle ground with him.
Hope this helps...
Good luck
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