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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 May 2010):
It is alright if you both feel the same. When your wife is no more, you are free to date anyone you want.
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reader, Plexi +, writes (28 May 2010):
How do You feel about the idea of dating your ex wife's aunt? How do you think she would feel about it? Might you be drawn to this woman because she reminds you of your wife or makes you feel like part of her is still sort of around(genetically speaking)?
It's not illegal so it all depends on how you answer the 2 previous questions..........:)
All the best,
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (28 May 2010):
The only issue is how the family might react. But if it's appropriate for the two of you, go for it and naysayers be damned.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): def. some more info is needed for this question. Reading it how it is doesn't sound good. But depending on the sitution it may be acceptable.when did your wife pass?is there really a connection between you two?are you just looking to have fun?i believe if it's been sometime since your wife has passed, and you truely feel an emotional connection with her aunt. and you're not just looking at this as a casual realtionship, it shouldn't matter if is is your deceased wife's aunt or not. If two people feel such a connection they should be able to express it. But be warned others may not be as open to the idea. But if it is meant to be, then don't let other's judgements persuade you. I would def. make sure she is on the same page as well. It is ground that should be walked on lightly. But we don't choose the ones we love or share connections with. If the attraction is there and the feelings are true, I say go for it. Best of luck.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 May 2010):
Nope. No law against it. :)
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