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writes: i find it so hard to start a conversation with the girl i fancy. i promised myself today i would talk to her at school. she was looking so pretty it put me off my task! it's awkward sayin hi because we dont talk much.any ideas to start a conversation? she always got her mates around her. i need an excuse to talk she's not in any of my lessons so it's harder. any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, doodle_dudette  +, writes (15 March 2007):
If you have her msn and phone number that shows she is interested in you. you should keep talking, ask her about boyfriends, find out what she likes. Ask her what she thinks of certain music find, things in common. Tell her she looked really nice at school, ask her simple questions like what are you doing on Saturday. Iif she says nothing suggest that you go into town, go shopping or even the cinema. If she agrees, make sure you make her feel cared for adored but not too much, too much of a full on experience may make her nervous. Offer to buy her lunch, a drink in a cafe or a cinema ticket, be a gentleman. If you're allowed to throw parties make sure she is invited, or if someone you know is having a party get them to invite her or maybe ask if you can bring a friend, if she isn't already going ask her to join you. Say "hi" to her whenever you see her and let her friends know you like her.
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reader, doodle_dudette +, writes (15 March 2007):
Well me and my boyfriend of 1 year 3 months met through a friend who sat next to me in French. I talked to Tim the guy next to me, we became good friends, I talked to him on msn. later he explained his mate had seen me around and seemed to really like me. I had never met this guy before in my life he was new to school. From Russia in fact. Anyway, I got his msn through his friend and we talked, he helped me through a break up with a guy and I helped him explain to his girlfriend it was too long distance. I never realised I liked him too much but we got closer through talking about things, eventually he knew me better than I did. I think you need to find a way of talking to her friends, getting to know them and so on. I would be the girl in your situation, so get your mates to talk to her if they are in her lessons and get her mates to talk to you. Me and my boyfriend met, talked in October, by December we were going out. Try it, I'm a girl and he took that approach, I didn't know he existed and know I don't know what I'd do without him. Trust me, being friendly open, honest and helpful is the best way...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): hi,um dis is quite triky but 1 fing is dat most people find it hard 2 people they fancy. i found that it helped to talk 2 my crushes friends. find a way 2 talk 2 her mates then gradually get to no her. or you could just make it really obvious that u fnc her. like this boy that fancied me did. he started off just talkin 2 my mates then kind off started askin me questions. then... he was really forward n always sed hi wen eva he saw me. lots of boys do this n u dont even have to ink ov anything 2 say cuz its just 'hi'! it cant do much harm. the thing dat i find silly is dat wen sum1 fancies sum 1 dey are 2 scared 2 tell them but really if you dont tell them then theyre neva gonna no n you'll get no wer. n u dont even av 2 worri bout being rejected cuz ur only tellin them u fancy them.if she nose this then ova time she is bound 2 start liking you (even just a little bit). this boy that fancied me really kept bein persisant (without stalkin me) like he wud talk bout me 2 my mates n stuff. if ur nervous bout talkin 2 her try 2 get used to it by talkin 2 other girls. u will then feel more confident wen ur oppitunitys cum to talk 2 her. u no girls dey'll talk bout n e fing so dont be afraid to speak bout any thing yu can think off. so basically try boost urconfident skills by talkin 2 her mates or any girls u no. then hopefully you'll get the chance to speak to her (memba say n e fing). den you can hint that u like her in anyway possible. (member if you really want this girl you'll do any thing 4 her). then hopefully by then you'll have enough confidence 2 ask her out.( i hadnt even spoken to this boy that kept persistant with me before n he wasnt in any of my classes but ive now been out with him 3 or 4 times n mayb agen soon) so heres som tips in wat girls like in a boy (well what i like) :1. be open! (tell them!)2. smile! (girls luv it n it sez loads in its self!)3.talk! (say n e fing , girls are always up for chattin!)4. Give them attention! ( theres no better feeling thn a boy giving you attention! eva!)5.Go for it! (just do it ! its betta dat she nos!)hope dis has been helpful an sorri its sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo long . good luck ! milli king! x-x-x
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reader, AskEve +, writes (15 March 2007):
 Here are some openers for you...
1. What do you like to do at weekends?
2. Where in the world would you most like to visit?
3. Are you interested in sport... if so what sport?
4. What do you look for in your ideal partner?
5. What really turns you off?
6. What really turns you ON!
7. Where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?
8. (Apart from me...) are you an animal lover?
9. What is your favourite food?
10. Are you close to your family?
11. What is the first thing you look at in a man?
12. Where do you go to socialise?
13. What's your favourite drink?
14. What's your favourite meal?
15. Where would you choose to go on that ideal date?
16. Are you a morning or a night time person?
17. Do you like to entertain and give parties?
18. What's your dream car?
19. Do you like to keep up to date with the news and current affairs?
20. Would you like to see me again
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive got her msn n talk on it. i got her numba but never calls coz its too awkward and nuthin to say! any more help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Hii well dont wrry I'm like tht LolI'm 13 and cant do the sameWell try and get her number or email addy thats always best!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwot do u mean by showing of? examples plz fanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Hey im a girl so i guess if you like this girl you could build up all your confidence and go and see her at lunchtimes or break make her laugh or show off in front of her girls like it :] love E xx
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