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Any ideas on how I can get a boy I like without actually asking him out?

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Question - (3 July 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right. Well i like this boy. have done for 2 years now. we used to text each other and he said i was ok and he would go out with me. but when my friends used to ask him if he liked me he said no. We have not been texting each other for about 2 months now but i still like him ALOT! he used to ask to meet me but i said no is it becasue i didnt meet them that hes lost intrest in me or did he never like me anyway? i really like him and i dont think i will ever like any one as much as i like him. i cant just ask him out i am too shy and i think he would say NO does anyone have any ideas on how i could get with him with out asking him out? x

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A male reader, brokenheartz United States +, writes (3 July 2007):

brokenheartz agony auntIf he told friends he doesn't like you, that does not necessarily mean its true. Many people hide their true feelings. Texting is pointless for this, so you just need to talk to him in person. Try and not make him feel awkward. Randomly bring up the idea of you two hanging out as a little more than friends. Be subtle, good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007):

i think you should get one of your best friends to ask him what does he do when he likes someone and if he gives an answer see what matches what he does when he likes a girl and then you will have your answer!

good luck

xXx

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony auntok have u still got his number text him to ask if he wants to meet up, say sorry if my friends have embrassed u when they asked if u liked me. trust me nothing embrasseses a guy more when a girl they like friends asks them its quite scary. so when u do meet up be urself just keep meeting up and see what happens on from there.

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A male reader, Shortacid United States +, writes (3 July 2007):

Shortacid agony aunt1. You will like someone a lot more than him one day.

2. When someone tells you no more than once to the same question do you keep asking? No, b/c you know the answer already. He might think you don't like him and thats why he stopped asking.

3. You can ask him to go out with you without asking him on a date. Go to the mall or a movie. Find out what he likes to do and say you are on your way to do something related and invite him along, like going to a high school basketball game or something of that nature. While you are out just start talking to him, he is undoubtedly shy in the feeling department, so you will have to either be blatant about what you are trying to say or make your conversation obvious enough to rouse him into that mind frame and that will get him to talk about it.

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