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writes:I think I like my friend. She used to be in my lessons 2yrs ago than we went different schools. We meet often randomly walking past. Recently. Think I like her. I don't know if she does. She smiles alot, laughs n likes my personality but she is a friendly person so I don't think she's only saying that to me.I don't want to ask her because it'll go round and it might ruin our friendship. Any ideas for asking her without making it obvious I like her and keeping it natural? Or any signs to look for Reply to this Question
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Add her on msn or something if you don't want to ask her out personally
But if she's a nice person then even if she does reject you i doubt she'll bring you down to the ground
Be brave!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno I haven't posted before. The thing is I liked her best friend for 2yrs and she rejected me. Now I'm getting over her I like this girl. And I can't do my usual stuff like usual compliments, buying her tickets etc because she's all seen me do that to her friend and fail! Do u get what I'm trying to say?
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reader, PeterPan  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 I completely agree -- fear is one of the worst emotions to carry around with you... except for one: regret. "Why didn't I ask her out??" will be on your mind in 5 years time. Step to the head of the pack and follow Collaroy's suggestion!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Dude,
this is you again with the previous question about the girl in the photo isnt it?
Dont worry,take my advice from the other post. Ask her for crying out loud.
This is the way the world goes around, everyone on this planet has at some stage had a girl or boy tell them no. It is life, we take our hits and misses equally. But we grow stronger as we get older.
Here's what you do, plan ahead. Have a couple of things in mind the next time you see her. When you bump into her say: "hey, I've got a couple of free tickets to (insert movie name here) would you like to come with me?" If she agrees , then go and buy the tickets! If she is a bit nervous tell her its for an afternoon session so there is no pressure. She may be very nervous or shy so dont force it.
When I was your age I found the easiest way to get to know girls was to meet up with them during daytime. That way you can joke and fool around and their is no nightime "date" pressure.
And forget about this rubbish about "I dont want to ask her because it will go around". How on earth do people ever get married or end up dating if nobody had the guts to ask a girl out? Come on , be brave and just do it.
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