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writes:ok... durin the summer went to a party with a bunch of my male friends ..there is one of them that i have a little crush on we actually liked each other at the moment... at the party we all started to drink ...he asked me to dance with him i said no and went on to dance with his brother even though i dont like the brother... he hasnt said anything to me about the party since it happened.. which was like in the summer but i just wanna know what he might have thought?or what he thinks about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): Ugh, you are a pill.
Dont you see people on here everyday trying to make a connection with a person but worrying about being rejected or obsessing that they are misreading signals?
Then you come on here saying "we both like each other and I rejected him and danced with his brother. Then we speak and I push him away".
So what do *we* think he *thinks*? Why so you can pull more head games on him? No thanks. He probably thinks all girls are bitches. The next girl will wonder why she gets treated so badly- it will be thanks to game players like you.
Let your yes be yes and your no be no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks since the party we have spoken.. he has even flirted but i tend to push him away or ignore him idk maybe i like the chase... but im pretty sure hes not even thinkin about that party but he has a way of remembering everything i say and do to him and im sure if we were to have a conversation he would ask me y i did that....im not to sure if i like him or not what do u think?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (28 October 2009):
 There is no way for us to know what he thinks of you based on what you've typed here, but you sent a clear signal you were not interested.
If he was interested then, I am sure he learned by your reaction, not to nurture those feelings. It would be entirely possible he no longer feels that way, and as he hasn't made any other move, I would say this is a very safe bet.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 October 2009):
He offered to dance with you, so he may have been interested in you and getting to know you a bit more, but when you turned him down and danced with his brother, he was probably hurt and decided you didn't like him. I'm not sure what he would think now, but you could always just try talking to him adn getting to know him a bit more.
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