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writes:Right Well About 4 Months Ago I Had Unprotected Sex With My Boyfriend..Before That My Periods Where Regular And I Had Never Missed One Before...So Of Course When I Didnt Come On My Period I Thought I Was Pregnant But I Had 3 Tests Witch Said I Wasnt. We Split Up A Few Weeks After But I Never Told Him I Hadnt Come On My Period I Dont Think He Even Realised I Had Missed One. But Anyway I Had 3 Tests Witch All Said I Wasnt Pregnant But I Heard That If You Smoke And Drink It Decreases The Chance Of Not Finding Out. Annd Im A Heavy Drinker I Drink Almost Every Weekend Friday And Saturdays And Even Some Sundays. But Anway I Just Came On My Period 5 Dayz Ago And Im On Really Heavy And Its Really Painfull But Im Only Usually On For 3 Days Not Heavily And Without No Pain..But I Have A Smally Bump Do You Think There Is A Chance I Could Be Pregnant? *Moderator Note: PLEASE next time, do not capitalize every single word!*
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reader, Jay Jay +, writes (25 April 2007):
 if you had unprotected sex 3 months ago and have only just come on your period then chances are you were pregnant. It sounds like you are suffering a misscarage if you are in pain and bleeding very heavy, you should seek medical attention. Just to rule this out if nothing else, there can be complications if you were pregnant and your body doesnt naturaly clear all the cells away. You can also then discuss a reliable form of contraception to provent finding yourself in this situation again! Hope everything turns out ok for you, and try to ease off the beer a bit you're only young enjoy the natural buzz of life.
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reader, Jay Jay +, writes (24 April 2007):
If you had unprotected sex 4months ago and have only just come on your period then chances are that you could have been pregnant. It sounds like you are having a misscarage if your bleeding is very heavy and you are in alot of pain, I advise that you go and see your gp and he could either give you medication to help ease the bleeding, or if nessesary refer you to the gynie department to do a d&c. Medical attention should be sought just incase you have misscarried as complications can sometimes arise, it would also give you the opportunity to discuss a reliable form of contraception to prevent ths happening again!
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (24 April 2007):
 Hi Dear!
No, I don't think you are pregnant. When you get your period, that means that the egg has not been fertilised. And a nex cycle starts. Also you had three test saying, it's negativ. I don't know, what drinking and smoking does, but I think this tests work most times. If you don't trust them, you can go to the pharmacy and ask for better test, or you can go to see the gynaecologist.
That you missed one period can have different reason. It can be a hormon problem, stress - physical or psychic, or anything. If you will get to normal in the next two month, you don't have to worry to much. But if there are some different strange things and if you will miss an other one, you better go to see a gynaecologist, because that could be hormone problems which should get medicated.
Don't worry to much, but have an eye on it! And maybe it's better to cut back you drinking. It would be better for your psyche and your health and if you ones should get pregnant, please stop drinking for the health of your child! God luck!
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