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writes:Hello,I'm a 15 year old guy, a bit tall, a bit overweight, brown hair, hazel eyes. And, I haven't had a girlfriend. Yeah, it's not a big deal, yeah I've still got a long ways to go, but god is it annoying when I hear some punk go "Hey, how'd your date go? Oh wait, you didn't have one!" or some witty remark like that. Anyways, I have a crush, she's smart, pretty, and has fun; the total package. She's out of my league. Any advice on getting her to find me a bit attractive so I can man up and ask her out?Thanks.
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reader, pinkfairy  +, writes (27 April 2008):
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if u like her and u thinks shes out yur league you will never no untill u ask theres good and bads sides of say yes or no if she says no then you think to yur self why did i do tht i new she was goin 2 say tht but at least u found out and didnt wait 4 ages not knowin and if she says yes then u jump 4 joy lol and theres yur girlfriend good luck when u are ready then just go 4 it just think how pretty she is and how nice you 2 problemy look like with each other :) good luck xxxx pinky
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (27 April 2008):
People are never out of your league. You need to realise and believe that you are a wonderful person. Be aware of all your great qualities and know that a girl would be lucky to have you. Once you work on your self esteem it will be much easier to ask a girl out. So I suggest you go to the library and find some books about self esteem. Or you could try searching 'self esteem help' on the internet.
Its not about changing yourself to make yourself appear more attractive to her. Its about you realising you already have alot of great qualities that you just arent showing off or you may not even realise you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): hey i had guys after me all the time and didnt really know, none of them were as you would call the hot guys or popular group they were all the 'nerds' and would never ask me out. anyways i didnt get a boyfriend until 16 and im still with him now. I hated him before i got to know him i thought myself way out of his leauge, but he ended up going to 1 of my friends parties and we just met n talked for like 6 months. then i went out with another 'nerdy' guy and we lasted 2 months but straight after i got with this guy who was never game enough to ask me out.so from my experience being the girl outta league for those guys...just get to know her, get her msn (thats what we did) and just chat..let her open up to u. be the 1 she always wants to talk to and it will come in time, she may even admit to liking you eventually. if u dont want to wait and are crazy about her. just walk up to her and say hi one day, keep doing it and slowly get into a conversation with her.all relationships take some time to start.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (27 April 2008):
 okay people are never "out of your league" unless u let them be. try getting her msn or mobile number getting to know her, and meeting up and see how it goes.
good luck :]
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