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writes: I have been seeing a guy for 12 months and I love him very much, though he never says he loves me. We get on very well, other than he is not very affectionate. The other night in the local pub another man chatted me up and I gave him my phone number. He rang the next day and I thanked him for a nice chat but did not want to see him, as I love my boyfriend. I now feel really guilty and do not know if I should just tell him. It is likely that I will see the other guy in the same pub as it is my boyfriend's and my local. help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): Well either you're a complete slut for giving your number out to a guy while you have a boyfriend, or you were doing this in an unconscious attempt to prompt your boyfriend to get mad and give you attention.
In any case, there are plenty of affectionate guys out there who will love you, so tell your "boyfriend" to hit the bricks. He's wasting your time.
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (15 January 2006):
being chatted up is gresat for the ego and not a sign that you have been cheating. No need to feel guilty as you havent followed up the guy asking for a date. keep quiet about being chatted up as I feel you and boyfriend have an edgy relationship and it might cause a massive row through no fault of yours.
Nothing happened so move on from it and enjoy your relationship with boyfriend.
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reader, jessy66 +, writes (14 January 2006):
I think giving this guy your number was a silly thing to do,unless you was hoping to hear from him,firstly if you are not going to continue contact with this guy i would tell him so make it clear it was a mistake,and if you can do that i would not tell your b/friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): You made a mistake, stop punishing yourself. Learn from it and don't do it again. By telling your boyfriend, you will cause insecurity and make him question his trust in you. Go out, have fun and be smarter in the future.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I think you need to tackle the root cause of your dissatisfaction here which is obviously your boyfriends lack of affection. This guy obviously made you feel appreciated in a way your b/f currently does not. The key thing here is to talk to your b/f about how you are feeling and give him the opportunity to change.
It may well be that your b/f has issues preventing him from expressing affection. If it is brought out into the open you will be able to work them out together and hopefully the relaionship will reach new heights.
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