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writes:Ok this might be a big post but please bear with me.Me and this girl "ashley" have started hanging out since i broke up with my girlfriend. Ashley has liked me for years and after years of waiting i was available and she was soo excited that i am single, but im not sure if she really is or not, heres why:When we talk on the phone, txt, or email each other she says alot of things like i cant to be with you, we were meant to be together, your are the guy for me, etc... and it makes me feel good, but then i go over to her house and she kinda acts like we are best buds!, no talking about us potentially being together, but just chilling. Ive brought it up a few times and she dosent really say much until im back home txting or calling her.I just broke up with my girlfrieand 4 weeks ago and shes afraid that if we do end up dating my ex will kill her because they work together and already hate each other for a different reason. Do you think this is the reason why or is she just looking for attention.Also, she was a very big flirt she said shes changed but im not sure.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Ashley does sound like she enjoys the relationship she has with you, but only at arm's length. Maybe she does like flirting and feeling attractive just as long as it doesn't lead to anything more.
Why not just enjoy hanging out with her, but stop being romantic over the phone and texts, and maybe you'll get a better idea of what she's thinking.
Or ask her on a proper date and try to hold hands with her, her reaction should tell you more.
Good luck!
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