New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

An unlucky guy looking to have sex, what do I do?

Tagged as: Sex, Teenage, Virginity<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (16 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, I'm 18 and I really want to have sex. "Saving it" for someone special stopped meaning something to me a bit ago, I just simply want to do it. I haven't had any luck with girls and the last girl I was seeing just flat out stopped speaking to me... So...I'm not exactly an attractive guy and my personality kinda sucks (I'm not mean or anything just not interesting). I go to a primarily guy college...it's seriously like 90% guys. On a normal week I get lucky to even see a girl. So if I want it so bad got any tips or hell just tell me anything at this point. I really want to save it but honestly...not a single girl I've been with has even stayed with me past like 2 or 3 months. Just an unlucky guy looking to have sex...What should I do?

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, Another_Kapiti New Zealand +, writes (16 November 2009):

Another_Kapiti agony auntI hate to be harsh, but perhaps as you really want to have sex and can't seem to wait, rather than rush a potentially good relationship when you do meet a nice girl, I'd tell you to see a professional! By this I mean someone with sex as a profession, if you get my drift. I hope I don't get flamed for this answer, but this sounds like all you need! As long as you use protection there's nothing wrong with this idea.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (16 November 2009):

DoubleM agony auntDude, there are also lonely girls out there. If you are not the most handsome, no problem, but always do your best and be willing to consider the girls who are also not the hottest around. And go wherever they are.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "An unlucky guy looking to have sex, what do I do?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0625127999992401!