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writes:I am worried about our sex life! B/f of 4 yrs.we've always had a good sexual relationship. Lately he's never in the mood. Has had to increase his blood pressure meds to get his BP under control, which he says affects his libido. But also I don't desire him the way I did earlier in our relationship. I know I am in love with him, and find him attractive, but I see sex as a major part of our relationship and don't want to become roommates. I know he can't help his situation, but what is my problem? I don't desire other men (although I do occasionally have erotic dreams about other men we know when I'm asleep). During our first 3 years together, we had sex almost every night (or pretty close to it) now it's like once every 2 weeks and I'm worried that we're losing an important thing in our relationship, even though the rest of our relationship is great. Am I worrying for nothing?......My last marriage ended because I basically lost attraction for him and never wanted sex. I just hope this is not a sign that I'm turning off sexually for some weird reason. How do I get my desire back, and help spark his??
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Indeed, some medications, notably beta blockers like Atenolol, affect a man's sex life, but there are blood pressure medications that do not cause erectile dysfunction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2009): Have you told him how you are feeling?
If he is telling you he's not in the mood, I am sure this doesn't make you feel wanted.
Try and relax about it all. Go out an a date, have a bit of fun together.
When was the last time you flirted with each other? Foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom.
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