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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Yesterday was my boyfriend's and I three year anniversary. He went out to get something and got caught up and stayed out for two and a half hours. I got really upset because our time was limited and he completely wasted it outside. I kept calling him so that at he could come home.. he left at 8:24 and didn't get home until 11 pm. I didn't call him names, and I usually do call him names. He began calling me names, hurtful names. I'm stupid because I don't know why he's out. If he would've been commutative through voice or text then uhhh I would have known. I cried a lot while he was gone. When he came back we continued to argue, continue ruining our anniversary. I went to sleep upset and woke up this way and he literally says he doesn't care because its my fault. How is it my fault? I got upset because your out for so long, at first he was all communative about it but eventually he started with his short answers and then hangs up. Wow, I'm sorry to ramble I just don't know what to do. Today, within 10 minutes of him being awake he tells me I have issues. I'm just so sad. My birthday was a disaster he was asking another girl out while we were at dinner, his birthday we ended up getting physical and our anniversary was fucked up too. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Geez, what what awful thing will he do next? I'll tell you what, I wouldn't stick around to find out. You're wasting your time. I know it can be hard to break up with someone, especially if you've been with them for a long time. But he's sure not going to break up with you since you put up with his behavior. He has it damn good with you, and he knows it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): since you usually call him names, it's not surprising that he doesn't place a very high priority on this relationship or that he prefers the company of other people. you have to treat your partner right first, before you can expect them to treat you nice. I bet when he finally got back you were angry and not treating him nice, rather than being understanding that maybe he does not really like spending time with you because of how you have treated him in the past.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (7 September 2012):
 You need to dump this abusive asshole. He asks out other girls, which is bad enough on its own, but he asks them out WHILE YOU'RE TOGETHER, and on your birthday. How much more blatantly disrespectful can he be? He gets physical when you fight, and he disappears on your anniversary and blames you for him being out. Oh and doesn't offer any kind of explanation about why he just completely disappeared for 2.5 hours. He asks out other women, think he could have been with one of them? You should take him someplace public and dump him there so he can't "get physical" with you when you do it. This guy is awful there is no justification for that kind of behavior.
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