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writes: Met a guy through my house mate. Everything was amazing ... He went away for 3 weeks with some friends, but continues to call and text me all the time whilst he was away. When he returned we spent 2 days with each other ( I thought everything was okay) then he calls me up and says he can't do this anymore... This isn't what he wants! He can't keep pretending! He wants me to move on. And who knows maybe one day things might be different, and that he still wants to hang out as Fiends! Hmm... Okay! I went a few weeks with our texting then a group of us went out bank holiday ... He said " I Mean more to him then anyone on the room, he just doesn't want a gf right now" - that was 11 days ago and I hadn't context him ... However today I found out he sold his house so sent a small text saying congratulations on the sale... Glad things are going well take care ... He ignores it!!!! What have I done? How can he just cut me out his life? Yet still has me as a fb friend?
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reader, Plumb +, writes (8 September 2012):
Sounds like he's playingwith you a bit, like someone already said trying to figure out a guy like this is a waste of time and will lead to heartbreak. And I didn't know just because you have someone on your FB, your considered apart of there life or a friend..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Let me tell you from experience that trying to figure guys like this out is a waste of time. They don't even know what they want, so how could you possibly know? Do what he says and move on. You'll only make him think less of you if you continue to contact him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Sounds like 2 me he wants a friends with benefits type of situation. If u down w/it then cool but if not don't entertain it. From the looks of it u haven't done anything wrong. He says move on, take his advice. Don't waste ur time.
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