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writes: Is there something wrong for a guy if he doesn't want reassurance from others, not even girls? I end up being to much on my own and people find this disrespectful and offensive. I don't think that i have to prove anything to anyone and i am at peace with myself. This upsets my family and some relatives and they consider me selfish. I do not need women to satisfy my ego either but do want a companion i can trust. My friends say that i have to be a gay to be like this, but i am not. Any advice pls? Reply to this Question
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reader, pops +, writes (14 October 2005):
What do you do with your time? If you are involved in work, research, and a mulitude of interests, then I think you are just fine. People will seek you out. You don't have to seek them, for any reason. ON the other hand, your socialization skills can always stand improvement, so some part of your week should be devoted to meeting others, and getting to know what they are interested in. You may meet someone who shares an interest of your own. You may not " need " people now, when you are young, but having friends is the true treasure and wealth in everyones lives. When you get older friend become far more important than money or anything you can collect. Tell your friend you are not gay. If you don't know how to talk to women, talk to them as you would talk to men. Its that simple, and that hard, all in one. Treat them with respect, compliment them on their good deeds, or work, and listen to them as they tell you what they enjoy doing. Be a good ear. YOu will find a lot of people willing to talk to you.
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