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writes:am i weird?been with my bf for 6 months we have been havind sex for 6 months.. (he is the only guy i have slept with).iv cant seem to come no matter how turned on i am.i cant feel him cumming in me.. i tell him i feel it but never actually felt it...plus he is on holiday just now he is coming back in two days.,. does anyone know anything i can do to surprise/please him (sexually) or make it our best sex ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): well, i agree with tasteofindia, i was having trouble pleasuring my girl through straight intercourse, although it was good for the both of us i was the only one to orgasm. so i took a trip to a sex toy store and bought a small clitoral stimulator. lets just say its been fun times when we get intimate. also, dont just have sex, use foreplay and oral sex, have him go down on you and use edible lubricants...sex should not just be intercourse, make it fun and enjoyable and spontaneous. i would recommend using the small vibrator and lubricant ( i have the "O, My" brand). im sure if u express to him that u wanna try new things, he should be up for it i think any guy would. good luck!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Well, sweetness..
Most chicks can't feel their man cum! He has to cum PRETTY HARD and an awful lot for you to feel it. I know I can rarely feel my man when he orgasms... so don't worry about that, you're perfectly normal.
As for you getting off, you should try the ol' "reach around". This works best (I've found, at least) when you're in the doggy style position... reach down and toy with your clitoris. Most girls need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so help yourself out!!
Or, bring a vibrator into the bedroom! Vibrators can be LOTS of fun for you AND your boyfriend! Why not go to a toy store together and find something new to play with?
In terms of what you should do when your boyfriend gets back into town, why don't you make a mix CD of sexy songs, buy a little something sexy (check out Victoria's Secret for lots of sexy little things), light a candle and pounce on him the second he walks through the door!
Have a blast, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): you need to talk about it to him,
make it clear that its not about how good he is in bed cos guys get all paranoid real easy and will think your sayin hes shit in bed.
dont worry about feeling him insdie you like,
n yeah try different positions n shizz n see if it helps.
also if you're on antidepressents or sum otha prescription meds, they affect it, antidepressants make it almost impossible to cum.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): 99% of women can't feel a guy actually cumming. As for you not being able to get off, have you tried being on top? Move the way that feels good to you and that may do it. That is the only way I can get off. It took me a while to be able to get off too, it's normal. Just keep trying new things.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Hey hun,
For the problem of you not being able to cum, why don't you try masterbation to see if you can find what does get you to that point.
It's not weird that you don't feel your partner cum when he's inside you. If he's thrusting then you wont feel him cum as such. I wouldn't worry about it.
If you want to surprise him why not dress up for him? You don't have to go out and spend a fortune just find a nice set of underwear and surprise him :)
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