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*rs.david archuleta
writes:Hey. I like this guy named brian simmons and he's nineteen years old now, and I'm gonna sixteen in october. I've liked him since I was eleven years old and he was just fifteen. I've sat back and watched him go in and out of relationships for the past few years and he's been in about four relationships in the past few months because he says they're just not what he's looking for. My problem is that I need to know if I'm "wasting" my time on him. I don't think I am, because I can feel in my heart that he's the one that I'm supposed to be with. Can you please help me? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (29 July 2009):
Yes, your wasting your time. There's simply too big of an age difference, and at you ages you have nothing in common. In 10 or 15 years the age gap will mean nothing, but between 15 and 19... that's 25% of his life and people grow up A LOT between those ages... you have a crush, it's normal... just know that the odds are slim to none that he's going to be attracted to you seriously. Sorry... but we've all gone through these feelings, it's common to have a crush like this--- that doesn't make the feelings any easier, but ever your folks should understand.
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reader, Zoe2194  +, writes (29 July 2009):
 He seems like a player. Move on.
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