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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi i am long distance relationship for 4 years now, my Significant other is currantly doing her hsc, we spoke the night before her hsc started and i asked her what she will be doing during her exams etc and she said she will be studying etc, so 3 days after her exams/hsc have started i have not heard from her, is this normal? i sent her a txt and got no reply, she then msg'd me saying that not to worry she is ok and that im stressing over nothing, is this a normal thing for girl to do when she is doing her exams? she hasnt called or txt'd in 3 days, apart from that 1 txt saying she is ok. She usualy calls everyday and night, she is the one that usualy iniiates contact but she hasnt for 3 days, so tahts why im worried, however to just to add to the story: we have had some problems recently in the last 2/3 months, she broke up with me for another guy who was closer to her but then we went no contact for 1 month , after the 1 month she couldn't take it anymore and "not talking or seing me" was stressing her out and making her miss me, so she broke it off with "the other guy" and came back to me, she told me i was her soulmate and was the one. But now i don't know what to do, should i give her space over the exam period? how long should i wait before i call her? I love her but the long distance thing is really stressful, i am getting doubts and paranoid about who she is with, what shes doing and where she is all the time. Do you think i should keep giving her more space and wait for her to call?
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 October 2008):
 You are having a problem being "cool". First of all, as a very young man, the probability that this particular relationship will endure is slim. What to do? Play it very emotionally reserved. Then it either ends or not. You will not win over all of them (women), and I think that you may prove exceptional to only "know" one woman in the future. Appreciate those you enjoy for the moment - and by all means, savour your youth. Old geezers like me have favorite sayings, one of which is "Youth is wasted on the young." Someday you will agree. Relax and be cool.
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