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*herries Needs Help
writes:I had a friend that made me mad because she is dating my ex-boyfriend even though she knows that I still have feellings for him and always will. She was one of my closest friends and I would have done anything for her then. But now I feel bad for being mad at her. Do I have a right to be mad at her?
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reader, Cherries Needs Help +, writes (8 March 2007):
Cherries Needs Help is verified as being by the original poster of the question I would like to thank everyone for your replies to my question I really appreciate the encouraging words that everyone has sent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): I think if your girlfriend knew that you still had feelings for this boy and you would be upset to see him with another girl, especially a good friend, then she could have respected that and come to you to talk about it first, but on the other hand it wouldn't really be fair to the two of them for you to stand in their way if they really like each other....sort of a catch 22, don't you think?
Now days people are generally self centered and they think it is every man/woman for themselves.....not the best way to live, the Golden Rule, treat others as you would want to be treated still applies, but is just not practiced often enough, if it were, the world would be a better place to live in. Pat yourself on the back for understanding and repecting that rule.
I know you probably get tired of hearing this, but at your age, boyfriends come and go, but girlfriends could be forever if you treat each other with grace and respect, so try to talk it over with her and see what you can work out.
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reader, u  +, writes (5 March 2007):
oh darling i wish i can do something to stop her, and of course you have right to be mad at her, and you have also right to tell her to not go out with him, and this is not right because he may want her too. oh darling i wish i could helped you i cant even say move on and get over him because..I got same problem that i cant not get over my ex-boyfriend BUT talk to your evil friend..tc xxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Lady Destiny* +, writes (5 March 2007):
Dear Miss Jealousy..
Ofcourse you have the right to be mad at her.. if she was a friend at all she would have came to you first. But maybe she thought since it was over between you and your ex that it would be fine for her to date him. Good friends always put there girls first and maybe shes not a real friend. Try speaking to her about how you feel and maybe you will be surprised with her answer. He is your ex and you should move on just like he has and find some one new. So what if its your best friend? You should be loyal to yourself and realise that it may hurt but through time pain will heal. Do your best to be patient with your friend but if she isn't bothered about your opinions then its her loss. You are worth more than a doormat to walk all over. Move on girl! You can do better!
Good Luck..Hope all goes well!
Lady Destiny*
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