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Am I right in feeling troubled about my gf's sleeping with her ex whom she known for a very short time?

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Question - (19 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2011)
A male India age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Girlfriend's Past sex life

Hey guys..i am 25.......need some help...i just started seeing this girl and we hit it off instantly...we have met only 4 times till now.....and recently we got physical. During that, some stupid force of nature prompted me to ask her if she had been with other guys. She told me she had oral sex with her ex bf of 4 years and kissed like 5 guys. I was okay with that. I had been intimate with my ex of 4 years and kissed a few. Now after 2 days she told me she had slept with her recent ex ( like 3 weeks recent) . Now that kinda bothers me. And she had been dating this recent ex guy for hardly 15 days. I mean, isn't that a bit quick> She said she really thought she loved this guy, but after meeting me, she broke off with him.

I am bothered and confused. I haven't reached the I LOVE HER stage. I am at "i like her a lot and would like to give it a shot"

But the last revelation has kinda shaken me. Please help.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy +, writes (20 March 2011):

Anonymous 123 agony aunt...."She said she really thought she loved this guy, but after meeting me, she broke off with him." Thats a little weird. You dont just fall in and out of "love" at the drop of a hat.

What if she finds someone new and moves on? Tread carefully.

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