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writes: Hi. I was in a long distance relationship and currently, I live in Turkey while she lives in Australia. She's 17 years old and I'm 16 years old, still in high school. She broke up with me today after saying that it's too hard to be together because we can't move in together soon enough.Since the beginning of our relationship I promised over and over to her that I would come to Australia. I never lied to her and that was what I really wanted. However, we were both downright devastated when my parents said they wouldn't be able to afford education there. Being an American citizen, education would be much cheaper for me there.But the problem is that she doesn't want to move to America. Although I'm willing to sacrifice everything for her, she's not willing to move overseas for me. Furthermore, she's not willing to stay with me even though my life isn't going very well at the moment, with my mother having cancer and being stressed out at school.What should I do? We both love each other more than anything but I'm afraid she's too selfish. I think we both would be really happy if we could just live together but I don't know what to do anymore.
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