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He's over me and I wish I could say the same about him

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Question - (19 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months now, from our 2 year long relationship. I believe he's currently back with his ex, but I'm still feeling a sense of longing for him even though most of the pain has subsided. I still love and want him, and we haven't even really talked since then. I don't know what to do, I feel sad constantly, and I can't get him away from my thoughts . He's been over me, but I just can't do the same. Please Advice.

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A female reader, Mami22 Netherlands +, writes (22 June 2009):

Mami22 agony auntHey girl.. I am reading your question, and as almost 2 years have passed and I am not in a similar situation, I would love to hear how the past 2 years have been treating you... are you over him?

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

brooke5426 agony auntits natural to miss someone after spending two years together. its good that most of the pain has subsided in just a few months - i've seen break ups where thats taken up to a year. so you're doing really well and you're over the worst of it. keep busy, and try to find something in your life to look forward to and get excited about. if there is nothing in your plans then make something happen. book a holiday or apply for a new job or college course - anything to have you looking forwards and not backwards and to make you feel happy and excited when you think about it. and try not to think about him being back with his ex or being over you - you will only wind yourself up.

good luck

brooke

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

I think that You just fancy him just think about other stuff Like sweets

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2007):

kenny agony auntI know it does not feel like it now but your feelings for him will eventually diminish and things will get easier, time really is the healer af all pain. Sooner or later you will meet someone else that you fall madly in love with, and probably when you least expect it.

Take care x

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A female reader, ohwoesme United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

Start dating...it stink's but eventually it goes away..that sick feeling..it's just a matter of time and being open to other people...

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