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writes: the woman i have become crazy jealous of from my mans work has become interested in the place next door to us for her mother,but if mom moves in she will naturally be there often.this is just too close to home for me but what can i do w/out causing stress between me and my man?how do i keep from going crazy?i'm all alone on this!how do i deal?am i overreacting???
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've been looking at the paper all day for a place to move.not only is mom moving in so is she!he didn't know till last night!ha!i think im being shafted and i hate it.i'm going crazy!what do i do.i'm gone 3 days a week and i can't stand the idea of her being so close.close enough to walk over and noone notice!i feel so much rage!help, please!
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (16 May 2006):
 Forget about her mother moving in next door as there are some things you cannot control in this life. Concentrate on sorting out your own feelings of jealousy as that is something you are in control of. If you think this woman being close to your home will affect the chances of your boyfriend straying then you are wrong - if he was going to cheat then he will go ahead and do it regardless of whether the woman is 2 metres or 200 miles away. Try to address your jealousy as it will really eat you up inside if you don't deal with it.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (16 May 2006):
 I too would be uncomfortable with somebody I was jealous of being on my home turf! BUT, I want to ask why you are so jealous of her? Has your BF ever shown any indication that he is interested in her or vice versa?
So how are you going to approach this? Does your man know about your issues with this woman and why you ahve them? If not, you need to tell him. I do not think that revealing your insecurity will do you any harm if your relationship is solid and stable. He may be able to provide some reassurance.
Unfortunately this is very difficult to answer as I do not know why you are jealous of her. If it is just because she is good-looking then you need to forget about it and believe your man is with you because he wants to be with YOU! But if there are other issues then it is more difficult.
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