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Not sure what happened. Is this normal?

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Question - (12 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 June 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok, so I know this will probably freak some people out or they will think I'm a tramp, but my boyfriend sent me a really dirty text and some pictures to go with it and I can't see him until Monday and it really got me going however I don't have any sex toys or whatever so I used a vibrating massager. I've never had a orgasm or anything before and when I was using it my legs proper tensed up and I just tensed up, so I stopped?

Is this normal? This is really embarassing I just don't want to be some freak and I can't ask anyone I know cuz they will laugh at me. "/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

Uhm.. if you don't know what that was.. you shouldn't even try doing that...

Kind of weird...

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A female reader, kittykitty United States +, writes (13 June 2010):

you just need to do it yourself a little bit, get used to the fact of orgasms.. and once your body gets used to it, you won't be as awkward or embarrassed.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (13 June 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntYes, legs tensing up is a common reaction to sexual stimulation. Nothing to worry about.

If you have troubles with leg cramps it could trigger one. Otherwise it is just part of the way your body enjoys sex.

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