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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So this guy has been waiting for an opportunity to ask me out and even waited through my last relationship for me all the while reassuring me everything would all work out BUT of course he also mentioned everything he would do differently if I were with him. Fast forward almost two years later and I'm single so he asks me out and I accept only to be stood up. Am I only interesting when I'm unavailable? Why ask me out and then not even bother call? If a guy waits for a girl to become available so he can make his move why wouldn't he follow through? Is he playing games? Is he trying to see if I'll keep it interesting and play back? Reply to this Question
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reader, landingsight  +, writes (26 September 2009):
He asked you out, then didn't show up for the date?If you haven't asked him about it yet, do that. I'm hoping that there was a legitimate reason for him to miss your date. If there wasn't, however, or if he's not in contact with you, I'd move on. I don't know about you, but I don't have the patience for games like this, and think it's pretty childish. Unless, of course, you're interested in being ignored, in which case feel free to go right ahead with this guy.
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