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writes: hey,Me and my girlfriend broke up probably about a month ago. We go to the same church, so we see each other a lot! And so we go to a youth group together. We went sliding with the kids, and then we filled a sled up as much as we could, and she sat on my lap no questions asked. I really want her back...I don't know if I should take that as a sign. Then 2 days later we went with the youth to eat dinner, and she ignored me and shot me down a lot. She was on her period "I am pretty sure it was the usual time". And the next time I saw her she was happy again. I am so confused. What should I think? Should I keep pursuing her? I was her first boyfriend. Maybe it is just taking her longer to heal? Someone help! Any advice would be good. " prefered from women, but all will do "!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): maybe you should just give her some space and give a little more time and maybe you can ask her if she wants to get back together with you.
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reader, funkybortha +, writes (5 February 2006):
funkybortha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe broke up because of lack of communication and busy christmas rush.
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reader, AuntyYasmin +, writes (5 February 2006):
Hm, your ex seems to be playing around with your feelings. It isn't very nice. She may not be doing it on purpose.
You don't say why you broke up or who broke up with who etc so its hard to give advice.
The best advice I can give is that you should clear the air with her. Talk to her face to face and ask her if she will get back with you and if she doesn't want to then tell her fair enough and that you respect her decision and you won't ever ask her again.
Then try to be a bit more distant with her. Start meeting new people. Its the only way you will get over her.
You don't really want to be with someone who is unsure of their feelings for you, it will only lead to trouble and pain.
Good luck!
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 February 2006):
 Why don't you just ask her?
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