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writes:so, i am deeply in love with my boyfriend. i love him with all my heart, and we've been dating for a while. but my problem is, that he's moving like 7 hrs away from me,on like july 1st. and i'm not gonna be able to see him anymore. he doesnt want a long distance relationship, and neither do i...if i had any hope that long distance relationships work, that would be different. i just dont want to waste my time hoping for something that i'll never have..but my real question here is am i making it worse by being with him now? even though he;s leaving, and i know we aren't going to be together much longer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): long distance is hard but it can work if you both have a goal as in eventual move or marriage if you dont its pointless and you will end up hurt. You both should prioritize what you really want as a goal and if it meets each others and make a decision from there on if this LDR is worth it.
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reader, bluegriffin +, writes (20 May 2011):
if u love him that much go with him. i hate feeling regret. i dnt thnk long distance relationships work very well either but if its meant to b then no mattr what u two will b togethr. prioritize ur life and current situation. do u love him enough to follow him? does he love u enough to take u? dnt end it bcuz hes leaving. end it bcuz u dnt want to b with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): If you both don't want to do long distance, then, yes, I would start to separate yourself emotionally. See him less, take less phone calls.
Try to hang out with your friends - think about the next guy you want to date.
Why prolong the inevitable if you both agree you don't want to fight to make the long distance relationship work at this point? Who knows, maybe your paths will cross again one day .. or maybe you'll find someone you love who will be around.
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