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writes:Hi, my ex just moved away from me...really far to try and make things work with someone else. His new chick does not know that we kept in contact after breaking up. One minute he says he will always love me and that I mean the world to him still and the next when we chat online, he brushes me off in the conversation. He used to be so open about things with her and him and now...he is like so tight lipped. Is he schizo or something? I have no idea what to make of this. He is confusing me totally. I don't even know if the girl is there with him cause she was not too sure what she wanted to do.I just need another opinion..My friends tell me to forget him cause he is just trying to make sure I am still here if anything does not work out between him and barbie. I'm kind of bitter. Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2005): Listen to your friends..he's trying to let you know..the friendship is over as well, in his gutless, cowardly, yellow bellied way. He has a new gf whom he loves. You cannot expect to be a part of his life now. It sounds like after you two broke up-he kept you "up to date" on all the happenings with her. Now that he has moved away and is forging a new life with her, she's either put the "kibosh" on his contact with you or.....he's come to realize that he's no longer remotely interested in being your friend, anymore. Yes, he told you he loved you but he didn't really. He lied. He scammed you, he played you for the fool, so that if the relationship with the gf, didn't pan out he had you to turn to. My heart goes out to you...because it likely hurts like hell. As hard as it is you gotta walk away. I can understand how mad you are but you have got to keep the point in your head this was a totally gutless move on his part, immature to say the least, and Barbie deserves him.
Keep telling yourself you are so much better than that. Everyday. Don't accept any more calls or messages from him, at all. Go cold turkey, turn around and walk away. It is the hardest thing to do because you have eat that anger, but don't let it eat you alive. Take this experience and learn from it..become a stronger woman and never allow a guy to do this to you again. My heart is with you, girl. Take Care
Hugs, Irish
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (15 August 2005):
 In a word... Yes. You're on the "back-burner", simmering away hon. Forget about him.
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