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36-40,
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writes:My girlfriend recently put up on a social networking site (FB) that we are in a relationship... and some guy commented on it.... whats your count?..I know her complete past.. she has told me about all the guys she has been with..in relationships or casual sex.. but still this guy commenting on it this way felt weird for me... Like...am i just another guy in the list? My girlfriend claims that am very important to her and she really loves me.. but its just weird to know that other people think like this about your girl..(yeah.. she was a wild party girl before she met me)..Am i overreacting to this? Or would others also feel weird and disrespected at someone asking their partner what count this new person is? I found it really insensitive and even she found it the same..Its just that would you want to be with a girl..or even marry a girl about who other people talk such stuff like which number guy and stuff??It just feels weird that her image among her friends is that f a party girl and one who dates guys for few days or weeks and moves to the next... Would you people want to be with someone like this who people talk crap about?? Im really confused... we have been together for around a year now.. and she has had only one other long term relationship before me for 2 years..rest were all flings or hookups.. but that was her past.. and i dont care about it.. its just that people still think of her as that same girl and it is weird..Im really confused and I need clarity for my future with her... would you people marry a person with such a reputation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): why does it matter what ppl think? if it doesn't bother you and you know shes a good person then it shouldn't matter....love conquers all...i wudn't wana tell my guy about my past b/c this is exactly wat happens, the guy starts questioning and asking unecessary q's when the girl is actually trully a good girl...this girl is prob a great person, so what she needed some love at the time so had flings, what matters now is that shes in love w/u, and that is HUGE for a girl who found everyone else as just a fling, u are the special one...i cant wait to find my special guy that isn't a fling b/c lately thats all i ahd, i can really relate to her
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