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writes:I've been dating a guy for two months now. He's in love with me and i'm with him.Problem is, his ex is pregnant. He didn't believe it could be his child, hence he wanted dna testing done the second the child was born.Now, she just gave birth to a healthy baby boy and all of his dna planning went out the window. Also he'll be spending 5 days with her and the newborn. Where does this leave me? I know that the birth of a baby can mend broken relationships as the bond between the parents get much stronger, unbreakable.What is the chances of him taking her back? My instinct tells me i'm history.
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 It will just snowball from here, move on. If its his he probably should be with her as long as he still has feeling for her because i dought any woman can take care of a child all by herself. And chances are things will escalate aka snowball as they spend time together. You were there for him but now he has healed and things are leading him back to his ex.
I hope everything works out ok for you
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 He was lonely and you came along.He left you by the roadside and rode into the night, perhaps he may never come back for you or he left you with some sweet memories.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Hi.
I am sorry to say your instinct is more than likely correct, it seem the best thing for you to do is move on from this point,After all two months is not a long time in a relationship, if you stay it will only bring you pain and heart ache.
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reader, kenny +, writes (23 January 2008):
 To be perfectly honest i think there are now to many compications here, and i think that you should move on. The baby is obviously his, he is going to spend the next five days with her and the baby, and those 5 days will probably materialise in to 10 and so on. Save yourself the heartache and pain and just move on. I know its hard but i feel its the right thing to do here.
All the best x
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