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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. Now everytime I see him on campus he picks a fight with me. We are in the same residence and it is awkward. Why is he doing this and how can I handle this...cooly...camly. Any replies appreciated.
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reader, HelpingHand7  +, writes (5 January 2008):
 it could be that he still has feelings for you or maybe was jsut really hurt by the break up. or it could just be that hes not a very nice guy its up to you to decide but those are the 3 common reasons for that type of behaviour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2008): Has it occured to you that dumping him, you probably hurt his ego. Just his ego. Not really him.
His ego is making sure that you know this. He probably does it in front of other people so they know. Unfortunately to him you are obviously beneath contempt and do not appreciate his whatever he thinks is important about him. i.e presumably why other people do like him. Presumably he has masses of freinds and girls follow him about. he obviously thought you were going to too. You did not, He has failed. Find a good book and hit him on the head with it, ask him if he enjoyed the book.
Lucky escape I hope you are not puzzled. But you are obviously not a person who likes hurting people, whereas he is not aware that people have feelings. Discovering that he has is obviously a novel experience. Probably a spoilt child and handicapped. He will possibly learn if a few more people dump him.
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