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writes:My problem is with my boyfriend. We havent been going out long but i did have something with him a few months ago which wasn't anything serious but ended badly with him calling me 'leftovers' to his ex and him liking her again. A few months after that, when i had begun to get over him he began to talk to me and send me text messages and tell me how much he was sorry. After ignoring him for a long while i finally decided to give him a second chance. So then he asked me out and i said yes. But his sister and brother have made some remarks of how no one can ever replace his ex and how good they were together and I just can't help but feel stupid like im just a rebound. Even though I love it when Im with him and he doesnt make me feel like a rebound at all. Maybe Im just being paranoid but i dont want to be the one that is tryin to replace her. Even though they were together for a few months and we have just started going out. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAwww that was a really pretty reply! Thankyou for responding. It has made me think that I am young and deserve someone I have no doubts about. If not then I am better of single. Thankyou very much :)Ill provide an update saying how things are going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): Hi, I can really feel your pain in your message.
The fact that he called you "leftovers" at all does not bode well for the future, it is something that is going to stay with you whether you want to leave it behind or not.
You are young, beautiful, full of energy and deserve to feel love in a positive and motivated way. Untimately you must make the decision as to whether you want to give him a chance or whether you should move on and be with someone who makes you feel wonderful and welcome (family too), where you can grow and enjoy being loved and giving love for a positive future. Is your boyfriend providing this kind of environment? If not, don't waste your young love or life, you have so much to give and experience, make sure it counts and you feel happy.
Good Luck
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