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Am I gay or just curious?

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Question - (15 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 March 2009)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey. I am a 15 year old boy, smack bang in the middle of puberty. For the last year I have been getting off to gay porn, I want to have sex with other guys, I like the whole idea of being gay and Last week I had sex with a guy. The thing is, I used to get off to straight porn, now I don't even get aroused. I am wondering if I am actualy gay or is it just puberty making me curious?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2009):

I think that gay porn goes everywhere and straight porn is more plain and less intertaining.Your probably bi and like both.Sence most of what your taking in is just gay porn the more that you watch you'll wont more of it,how do I know b/c I watch gay porn and the more I see the more I wont to be with a guy.And even if you liked being with a guy it could b/c part of the reason the porn and feeding that desire into your mind,body,heart,and soul.By giving your self to these desires its feeding them until your satisfied.Being with a guy is giving into your lust.If that what you wont at the end of the day,then thats what you'll get.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks for all the help so far.

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A female reader, LoonyLunagirl United States +, writes (15 October 2008):

LoonyLunagirl agony auntFirst thing; did you ENJOY having sex with this man? Maybe your answer to that question will help you out a bit. It seems to me that you need to explore around a little more. Get in a relationship with a girl and see how you feel. Maybe watch some lesbian porn and see if it turns you on? My guess is that you're either EXTREMELY curious, bisexual, or gay. I'm almost positive you're not straight, hon.

Much love,

MB

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (15 October 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntA little bit of both, my sweet. As you said, you are smack dab in the middle of adolescence and sexualities sometimes take a lifetime to develop all the way!

It seems to me that you're definitely bisexual, since you enjoy men so much and have enjoyed sex with them. However, you may in the future begin having feelings for the ladies as well.

Don't box yourself in quite yet. You're young and you have a lot of fantasizing and romanticizing left to do.

P.S. I hope you are having SAFE SEX. Because it ain't good if it ain't safe.

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